So I tried my new theory of responding to messages from guys I wasn’t interested in to let them know exactly once. And I’m still paying for it.
A gentleman that I wasn’t the least bit interested in wrote me a message. I kindly responded saying we weren’t a good match. He writes back, calling me the wrong name, and wanting to know why I felt that way. As I thought it would be rude of me to say I wasn’t attracted to him in the least, I made up some bullshit about our astrological signs not being compatible and I just didn’t feel like I connected with anything he wrote.
Nice, right? Nothing he could argue with and nothing that would hurt his feelings. I was rewarded with yet another message asking if I was sure and if I shouldn’t at least give him a shot.
I didn’t respond. Today he sends yet ANOTHER message just checking in. He wanted to remind me that he was the one who sent me the nice message (it wasn’t that nice and he called me the wrong name) and wanted to see if I was still interested in getting to know each other.
What?!?!?! Uhm, I didn’t want to get to know him. Never did. So much for trying to be nice.