Soooooo, remember the horrible man who grilled me for over an hour on the phone before declaring me worthy of meeting him, who I subsequently opted out of, who THEN sent me a
lovely shitty e mail listing all of the reasons that he didn’t want to meet me anyway? Yeah, that one. He decided to e mail me yesterday. Lucky me.
He apologized for how our phone conversation came off, claimed that’s not how he ‘normally’ has a conversation with his friends and then blamed it on online dating for being such a grill-master. He also was gracious enough to say that he’d still like to meet me. Uhm, hello? I feel as if he’s missing a HUGE chunk out of his memory. Not only was the phone call painful, but the follow up nasty-gram letting me know all the reasons that I wasn’t a suitable match for him seems to have escaped his memory. I do believe I’ll opt out of responding and have absolutely NO regrets of missing out on the opportunity to meet this jackass.
Now, as for the guy on the other site who gave me the ultimatum of providing my phone number or he wouldn’t communicate with me messaged back. As I can’t possibly capture the esense of his defensiveness without making him seem like a petulant and controlling idiot……oh wait, he IS these things, I’ll just post it. Anywhoo, here’s what I wrote him as well as his response. Please enjoy
Me to him: Hi Dumbass (not his real name),
Thanks for the note. I would never assume that anyone is a stalker. I’m the one that always thinks the best of everyone.
Although I prefer to have a real conversation as well, as I said, giving out my number (which is my work phone as well) off the bat just isn’t something I’m comfortable doing.
I ‘get’ that you’re not a fan of typing (who is?), but as you managed to type an entire profile, I’m kind of surprised that you basically told me that you won’t communicate with me unless I give you my number.
While I’m far from being someone that likes to message back and forth incessantly, I didn’t think it was too much to ask for a few more messages back and forth before doing so. I’d think if you wanted to get to know me, you’d be okay with waiting until I was comfortable. That’s disappointing that you’re unwilling to do that.
My apologies if that’s not what you meant, but it’s the way it came across.
Him to me: Well Grey Goose, You certainly labeled me as doing that, then merely left a disclaimer afterwards. lmao… Its okay though as I dont expect much from online anything.
And I did fill out a profile. It is a must to get someone to pay attention. But to keep doing as I am now is just a pain.
Look up (insert dumbass’ crappy website here) and you will see my number is also my business number.
So I have no choice in running a successful business under a number For stalking. lol…
I hope since I have been typing with you now that you my compromise and also text…
Not sure how he thinks that message would make me want to give him my phone number, but that’s what he opted to go with. Please note, that he STILL didn’t just give me his number. He made me look up his craptastic website. I think this one is a bit too argumentative, negative and difficult for me! Everything else aside, his grammar sucks!