You remember Tinder guy, right? The one that I hooked up with and then never expected to hear from again. The one that texted me 2 weekends ago inviting me up to visit him in his hometown. The one that was actually quite good in bed even though slightly overconfident. He was a good time. Nice and friendly and easy to be around. Let’s be honest though, I needed to get laid. And he obliged.
I heard from him today. He again invited me to come see him. Either in his home town or to meet him in a neighboring state where he would be on business. As I have not one thing planned this coming weekend, I told him so. I told him that I was all his for the weekend and if he flew me up to see him, there would be fun for all to be had. He immediately backtracked. Said he had his kids this weekend. That he was in the middle of rugby season. Uhm, so? He then changed his tune to maybe just a lunchtime rendezvous next time he’s in town (2 weeks). Huh.
What the fuck? Did he expect for ME to buy my own plane ticket? I think not. If he does the inviting, then he also gets the pleasure of paying for my travel. Makes it more whore-esque that way, don’t you think? 😉
The Life & Times of a 54 Year Old Online Dater 
You’re right, he’s overly confident…thinking you’ll pay to be laid…that makes him the whore, not you honey!! Pass!!!
Was kind of looking forward to a weekend getaway, but if I’m paying, I’m headed to the beach, not to him! 🙂
Exactly!!! You pay…play it your way!
Attagirl!!
Hahaha I actually had a friend that did this with a guy she met on Tinder. He did pay for her flight lol.
Apparently I found a cheap one. Boo
Hahaha love the ending you must be real good fun to be around! Keep it up!
Thank you! I’ll try 😉
I’m in agreement with you, Grey
Guys are kinda dumb sometimes 😡
Wait a minute – could he be married? Maybe he thought he could be flirty without you actually saying yes. Have you FB stalked him to double-check his relationship status?
FB stalking (usually) isn’t my style. I don’t think he’s married. He told me about his last relationship and honestly, as I’m not ‘interested’ in him, I don’t really care ,-)