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Do Over May 1, 2018

Filed under: internet dating — Grey Goose, Dirty @ 2:27 pm

So you all got a sneak peek into my weekend with Mr. OoT on Friday.  It started surprisingly well.  And, wouldn’t you know it, continued that way.  Huh.  I guess when you get 2 overthinking & neurotic individuals to each decide, on their own, to leave their bullshit at the door and just see how things go, it kinda works.  Crazy, right?


I didn’t question.  I didn’t dwell.  I didn’t grill.  I didn’t try to figure out forever in a day.  He didn’t question, he didn’t pick, he didn’t pout.  He was kind of awesome.  I truly almost fell over when he admitted, out of the blue, that he had been trying to sabotage everything to avoid getting hurt.  The big dumbass.  As I do the same thing, I get it, but still.


Sort of crazy how cool he was.  Sort of crazy how cool I was.  I wasn’t nervous or weird or nitpicky.  We had a great weekend.  Mr. OoT kept saying how he was waiting to get tired of me.  How he was waiting to start freaking out because he likes his space.  How he was waiting for big red flags to hit him in the face.  None of these things happened.  Now, before anyone thinks he’s being a dick for saying these things to me, he wasn’t being.  I took them as a compliment.  Mr. OoT may quite possibly be the only person in the world who sticks his foot in his mouth more than I do.  If there is a ‘wrong’ way to say something, he will do it.  I get it.  I get him.


He likes me.  I know he does & he knows he does.  I like him.  It was a fun filled, laughter filled and sex filled weekend.  Pretty damn awesome in my book.  There was no ‘defining’ anything.  There was no ‘when will we see each other again’.  There were no assumptions made.  As I was leaving to head home (after our last round of hotel sex), he grabbed me, pulled me back into the room, gave me a big hug and said he’d love to see me again if I wanted to.  Uhm, hello?  Yes please.


Please note that on Saturday night, after we met his best friend for some pool on Saturday and I was saying goodnight, I said ‘so awesome seeing you again; hopefully I’ll be invited back and see you next time’.  And he says ‘Oh, you’re getting invited back’ 😉 …. hahaha, I love getting the inside scoop from friends ……


More details to come, but I figured I’d made everyone wait long enough ……


8 Responses to “Do Over”

  1. kkatch22 Says:

    Finally!!! Do you know how I’ve been checking and checking waiting to see how it went?? Now I can let out a sigh of relief!!! Woohoo!! Hallelujah! Happy dance! So happy for you!!!

  2. Me too!! I can’t count the times I’ve gone to look at your blog to see if I missed a post! Thank God I can put these bloody pin pins down now, my arms are killing me!

  3. Pam Says:

    This makes me very happy
    All the BEST to you, Grey!!

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